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Thursday, June 29, 2006
  Stereotypes
The only remedies against race and prejudice are enlightenment and education. This is a slow and painstaking process
- Albert Einstein

The recent rumblings of Superman possibly being gay led me to think about streotyping. Stereotyping is, ironically, a bonding point among people, since stereotypes tend to be uniform among people. Men are expected to be manly and muscular, women are expected to be petite and airheaded. Gay men are expected to prance around in tights and tutus whenever they're in public, and lesbian women are expected to be, well, petite and airheaded, with the added bonus of bursting into spontaneous makeout sessions in the presence of men. Black men are expected to be either meek and obedient, or criminally bent, and black women are expected to be the black version of white trash. People of other skin colors; well, they're sorta expected not to exist at all. Women who play sports are called butch; men who cook are called fruity. Non-white people who like country music are deemed white-washed; white people who enjoy hip-hop are labeled wiggers. I could go on and on; after all, there is no shortage of stereotypes, and I've just listed the popular ones. We could give it cute names, such as racial profiling, and pretend it doesn't exist or it has been eradicated, but it still stays, maybe in our subconscious, maybe even closer. The real question, I suppose, is that every generation rejects all or most of the ideas that came from the previous one. Music tastes, fashion, attitudes, even political opinions change. What is it in stereotypes that keeps them enduring through generations?
I think one big thing that keeps stereotypes going is that, for a lot of them, people don't realize they are stereotyping. I had a friend of mine recently tell me, quite flippantly, that white boys only go for white girls and vice versa. Knowing both mixed couples and mixed children, this statement naturally struck me as odd and, upon further questioning, I discovered that this idea was one that she had no proof of, in fact admitting to not even knowing any white boys. While there could not be a more textbook example of stereotyping, she really didn't think of this line of thought as being odd, even going as far as to defend it. Now how do you go about convincing a person that this train of thought is not that far removed from the idea that people should know their places in society and not move above it? After all, is it much of a stretch to go from "people do certain things" to "people should do certain things"?
To be continued...
 
Comments:
well according to psychology stereotyping is learned .
So it is possible for it to be unlearned.

We tend to put labels on people, e.g calling a man metrosexual because he "acts feminine" but what exactly is acting feminine.
I have been deemed a tom-boy because I like sports alot and I wear skirts very seldom and I don't like doing my nails .Does that mean I am gay or a butch according to society I am.
But it is just my personality.
A white person liking rap ? what is the big deal .
I like all kinds of music.
Society has put these labels on how we should act .
And we live up to that sterotypes.
It is our job to change that for the future generation.
 
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